Wednesday, December 31, 2008
FUN THINGS THAT OCCUPIED OUR TIME!
I don't remember ever not having a bicycle to ride. I remember how I would climb up on the fence to the yard to get up high enough to get on the seat. Only one foot would touch the pedals, so I would push off and there was a slope to the barnyard and that kept me going. After falling over at the end, I would wheel it back up the incline and start again.
My sister and I would play doll, but she was 5 years older, and we didn't do that a whole lot together.
We had dominoes, checkers that we would play in the house. When we got so we could beat our dad, we thought we had arrived. Otherwise, we improvised our fun things.
One time we were down at our neighbor's home and we were playing in the barn. There was about a foot of hay at the bottom. We got the idea that we would take a ride on that rope that pulled hay up into the barn with (I had mentioned about this in one of my writings). In order to get the rope (on a pulley) down low enough to sit on and grasp the rope on each side, the other end had to be very high. My sister was the first person to get this fantastic ride. All of the neighbor kids and I climbed up on a high 2X4 and got a hold of the rope. When she was firmly in place in the center of the barn and her hands were tightly in place, we then jumped off the 2X4 and this rose my sister for a very fast ride to the top. All went well, until she hit her head on the roof, we all got scared and let go of the rope at the same time on the other end. This sent my sister down faster than she had gone UP! Needless to say that idea was scrapped. I don't know how she kept from getting hurt, but she wasn't hurt. Our parents didn't know about this episode.
This neighbor family had older kids that rigged up a merry-go-round with a large wheel stuck in the ground. We would ride around on that for fun. It was a far cry from a real merry-go-round.
That same family older boys dug a big basement type of room and had dirt steps leading down and a rigged up top. I think this was short lived, probably because of the first rain that made it into a mud hole.
On the farm there were windmills to climb, as well as trees. My sister climbed up in a tree and on our roof of our house and fell off and broke her arm one time.
We did have a swing in one of our trees and this was quite fun to play on.
Off limits was the corncrib. We were NEVER to play in the oats or bean bins. There were too many children would be sucked into the chute when the farmer was getting grain out to feed some animals and not knowing a child was playing up above. This suffocated the child in that situation. THIS WAS A NO, NO FOR SURE!
Stilts of various heights were made and was lots of fun to walk with them.
We would have club meetings with the neighbor kids and president, and vice would be chosen. I don't know what we did in these meeting. I do know we had a snack. Also, we performed a funeral for a small dead animal at one of the meetings. Yuk--that sure sounds like fun. We must have been desperate for ideas.
Another time we put two chairs together and a person laid on the floor with arms up, and blanket over all. The arms were covered with more cloth. This was supposed to be a ghost that could answer anybodys questions. The kids in the other room didn't know the set up. They would come in and the arm would nod no or yes, depending on the question.
One time my dad had a glass of water he said he was going to pin to the wall. We wanted to see that trick for sure. Well, he got up on a chair to make him higher, then he accidently dropped the pin. While we were down picking up the pin, he would pour the water on our head. The joke was on us.
At one point in time, we had a motor scooter. It was a used one and was rather short lived.
Our trusty bicycle was really the thing that I lived on a lot. I got so I could ride it without holding on to the handlebars and turn and steer with the slant of the body.
Wisdom today--When something doesn't work, try, try again until you find something that will work.
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
I HAD TWO MOMS!!
When I was born, and after the shoke of me coming in that black bag, I guess my mother told my sister (5 years old) that they both could help raise me. That I was her baby as well. Well, she took this literally and she had a live baby to play with, feed, diaper and whatever babies did in those days. She claimed that she enjoyed the process.
I've been told, but do not remember, that when she was feeding me my milk, that she would drink a little herself just to make sure it was good. The formula was Eagle Brand, which you still can buy. I know it is good to the taste, as I just made some fudge with it this month. I would cry and my mother would see what was happening. So that's the reason I am so undernourished today!!!!!!
This year we saw scenes of Sarah Palin's six year caring for her young sibling. What stands out and was adorable, was when she licked her hand and then slicked the baby's hair down. How sweet and innocent this scene was. She was so unaware of such a vast audience and just making sure that the hair laid down correctly. What a darling little girl!
I do think that this was a wise decision to have my sister involved, and then there was no rivalry
from the very start. My mother certainly did have her hands full, with 3 children under the age of 5 and all the work that she did besides just parenting. So you can see that I truly did have two mothers.
One mother would tell me there was a whole attic full of toys and I would just dream about them and want to get them down. The other mother (no nonsense approach) would not stand for any lying and punctured my bubble. I liked the first story better, and kept on dreaming about the attic full of toys. Maybe, just maybe, my older mother was telling the truth after all. However, a little pretending once in awhile is fun, and unharmful.
Tomorrow I will tell you of the toys that we did have to play with.
Wisdom for today--Mothers, involve your older children in the care of the siblings. This helps them bond with the new arrival.
Monday, December 29, 2008
POPULAR RADIO PROGRAMS!
I will list some of the ones that I seem to recollect and were very popular.
Little Orphan Annie & Daddy Warbucks--My all time favorite. We would rush home from school to be able to listen to this program. The sponsors would have you buy Ovaltine and send in the seals (don't remember how many) to get a decoder in the mail. We drank a lot of Ovaltine so we would always have the decoder to decipher the next day suspense story.
Lum and Abner--These were enjoyed by everyone. It seemed to center around a pot-bellied stove in the Jot-Um-Down store if my memory is correct. It really was funny!
Gracie Allen and George Burns show--Here is one of Gracie Allen's recipe for Roast Beef.
You take 1 large roast of beef and 1 small roast of beef. You put these two roast in the oven, and when the little one burns, the big one is done. She had to be the smart one in the family to carry out this hillarious comedy the two put on to entertain us week after week. She would really come up with some ding-o-ling sayings, line after line.
Fibber McGee and Molly--This show always had a scene where Fibber McGee would go to the closet and everything would come tumbling out of it. It reminds me of some of my closets today.
I'm like Fibber, I'm going to clean that closet out one of these days. This show was funny as well.
The Fred Allen Show was on.
Eddie Cantor show.
The Lone Ranger and Tonto
Mr Anthony--A "Dr Phil" of radio--Such sad stories of families that were on the "Rocks". So foreign to the family of my "little" world.
The Hit Parade--Top songs for the week--I knew each one and this was a regular listening event.
You can go to the library and take out a lot of the old time favorite programs of these old time favorites. We try to take them on trips and it helps with boredom.
Today's Wisdom--The Bible contains all the nutrients for a healthy soul.
Saturday, December 27, 2008
DAD'S TRUCKS!
Yesterday I mentioned that my dad had trucks all during the time I was growing up. These were very valuable on the farm to haul things. But the memory I wanted to tell you about was when he would haul loads of cattle, hogs to Chicago for the farmers in the community. They would schedule these trips ahead of time and it usually was on the first day of the week for the stock yards sales. Come rain or high water (mostly snow and ice), he would be on schedule and carry out his commitment. Many, many times I saw him leave for Chicago in very hazard weather conditions. Since this was mostly done during the severe winter months, and weather was very unpredictable, I would worry as a child that he would make it up and back safely. It was during these times, as a child, I learned to trust in God for his safety. He never had any mishaps or accidents, even though I would see him go in foggy conditons and icy roads.
He always said, that he would much rather drive in Chicago in his large truck, than drive in a car up there. The reason was that other cars stayed their distance and did not want to tangle with a truck full of animals.
Todays wisdom--God hears the simplest prayer, even from a small child.
Friday, December 26, 2008
MODE OF COMMUNICATION/TRANSPORTATION!!
We always had a telephone (a MUST if you live in the country). It was one of those that hung on the wall and when you wanted to call, you had to turn a crank to get Central. She then would ring the party that you wanted to speak to. We were on a party line, and when the telephone rang, others would pick up the telephone and eavesdrop on the latest news/gossip. Our telephone number was a short and two longs. One had to listen carefully, so to know who they were calling.
When I was in high school we could call our friends up and talk, (with all the bored housewives listening), and when an important call came through, the telephone operator would cut in and tell us that we had to get off the line, as someone important wanted to use it. A way of life for us, so we got off the telephone. I could have talked with my friends all day, if that rule wasn't inforced.
We had a battery radio and then an electric radio after we were wired for electricity. The battery radio was rationed out, because we feared the batteries would go dead. When we got electricity, my mother insisted we get a radio that carried WMBI. If we couldn't get that station we would buy one that would get that station. It was a Christian station out of Chicago (Moody Bible Institute). The radio was "glued" to this station, from morning til evening. My mother would so enjoy their music, sermons, as she did her daily work. I believe, this is why her work was never drudgery to her.
Traveling in those days were limited to short trips. Long trips (like 100 miles) were rare. Each
year we would go visit my aunt and uncle that lived 100 miles away. This was an EVENT in our young life. Oh, by the way, the town they lived in, is the town that we are living today in. Who would have dreamed we would end up here, of all places. That is another story on another day.
I had only been in 2 states by the time I was 18 years of age. The other state we traveled to was only 10 miles from our house, so go figure why we traveled in 2 states. Our grandchildren bop around from city to city, and travel abroad.
There were buses and trains, but did not travel on these until I was 18 and over.
On another day, I will tell you more about my dad and his trucks.
Wisdom for the day--How thankful I am for the station WMBI, I was able to listen to "Aunt Theresa" and other children's programs. D. L. Moody was the founder and back of this station. You know that the Gospel was preached. The bible (God's Holy Word) is the same, yesterday, today and always.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
MERRY CHRISTMAS--THE GREATEST GIFT OF ALL!!!
My sister was planning on coming over today, but just too icy for her to venture out, so we are going to have a quiet dinner and watch television. Last night we watched "Grace alive Christmas
program" on television. We went to the music program and it was spectacular!!! It was on last night and early this morning on television. We also watched "A Wonderful Life" with Jimmy Stewart. I honestly think this was the first time I was able to sit down and watch the whole thing without interuption of Christmas to do list in front of me.
My title is today "The greatest gift of all". In the back of my Daily Bread devotional booklet was the following, titled-- Too Good to be True? I will type it as it is written.
"In the world of shopping, if the product sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Whether it's a vegetable chopper, a weed whacker, or the latest automobile, the advertised image is more likely to be a mirage than reality. What you think is a bargain can turn out to be a major disappointment.
God never advertises more than He delivers. He's not out to deceive us. He wants us to have the best He has to offer--the joy of a close relationship with Him now, and heaven later.
To enjoy God's best, though, you and I first need to take Jesus at His word. He said, "He who hears My word and believes in Him who sent Me has everlasting life, and shall not come into judgment, but has passed from death into life" (John 5:24).
His offer is conditioned only on our acceptance of His free gift. Does it sound too easy? Too good to be true? It's not. Jesus has proven that He can be trusted. He came to earth, lived a perfect life, died on the cross in our place, and rose from the dead. If He can't be trusted, nobody can.
If you've never done so, choose now to take God at His word. Admit that you deserve God's judgment for sin, believe Jesus died for you and rose from the dead, accept Hs offer of new life, and then build your life on the promises of God".
When I was eleven years of age, I was home from school (Washington Birthday) and my mother was cooking supper. I had been thinking about what God did for me, but had yet not accepted his "free" gift for myself. I asked my mother about this and she stopped what she was doing and she explained to me the Gospel. I knelt beside my bed right there in "simple faith" and asked Jesus into my heart and life. I did not know the full meaning of this, but I know He heard my simple prayer and He has walked beside me down through the years. I have failed Him, but he has always picked me up when I stumbled and I know and believe I shall have eternal life.
This was a faith in what He (God incarnate) did on the cross and not what I have done. My righteousness is but filthy rags in God's sight (Isaiah 64:6).
Ephesians 2:8-9 says "For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God; Not of works, lest any man should boast".
John 1:1-4 says "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God. All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made. In him was life; and the life was the light of men."
Jesus gave his life and rose again to save us from our sin so we can have Eternal life. This is truly "THE GREATEST GIFT OF ALL!!!!! It is all wrapped up and all we have to do is reach out and claim this GREAT FREE GIFT!
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
POCKETS, POCKETS EVERYWHERE!
I did have a man that I looked up to in my life as a child. That was my dad!!!! He wasn't round, but tall (6 ft tall), handsome and just the right built. I can't remember a time that he would not allow us to sit on his lap. He might have been reading a paper and engrossed in the latest news, but we always knew that we could climb under the paper and on his lap whenever we wanted. He really enjoyed his children. I guess after waiting so long for us to arrive, he wanted to cherish each moment.
As a farmer, my dad had umpteen pockets in his overalls. Each pocket had something to explore. He was such a kind gentle man and never got ruffled easily, that we wanted to never disappoint him in our actions. He wasn't necessarily demonstrative, but showed his love in the way he responded to our needs as children.
Our son-in-law's mother mentioned that her dad was so kind, that it was easy to know what our heavenly father is like, by the example of her earthly father. This is exactly the way I felt about my father.
Dad was indeed one that I held in high esteem. He was so---ooo easy to talk with and discuss anything that we were concerned with.
Wisdom of the day--Relationships and not "things" build the right memories.
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
HUTTENKASE, GERMAN POTATO SALAD AND MORE!!
My mother would cook without recipes, for the most part, I don't have her particular recipe, but another recipe that very similar is below.
Monday, December 22, 2008
SOUP TO NUTS ON WHEELS!!!!
My title today is that years ago we could purchase "soup to nuts" right in our own barnyard.
I remember a country peddler would come often and he would have brooms, cure-all medicines, and what ever the house wife should need for the next month or so was in his "store on wheels". We also, had the Fuller Brush man to come to sell his wares. The Raleigh Man would sell vanilla, spices, and all the array of enticing products that a housewife "MUST HAVE". We even had a "bakery on wheels" would stop by and try to sell bakery goods. Occasionally we would buy "Long Johns" that had filling inside. All these were regular peddler's that would try to make a living selling their products to the busy farmwives when I was a child. No doubt, Lydia Pinkham (a cure all), was part of the potions that were sold. I mentioned this is in the "Big Black Bag" story. However, I think the title should have been "The Little Black Bag". It just appeared BIG to a 5 and a 3 year old.
Today's wisdom--An honest talk with God is the first step in finding peace of mind.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
"OUR CUTIE" IS ONE!!!
Yesterday we were over to our daughter's home and Cutie's mother and father were home for the holidays, so we had a great day celebrating his birthday. Children are truly a joy to be around and see the world through their eyes once again. We made a game out of putting up one finger and saying "one". He got the idea and would put his finger up and we would clap. Then he would clap and smile. Of course, he didn't know that ONE meant that he was one year old.
Later on in the day we noticed it was starting to rain and freeze more on the trees. Our kids suggested that our granddaughter's husband (Mr. Wonderful-as our granddaughter calls him) could drive us home and our son-in-law would drive his truck so that he would have a way back. We were so grateful for this, as it truly was bad driving conditions.
Well you might of guessed, we had a fender-bender experience. We are so glad that "Mr. Wonderful" was driving, as he has been teaching "Drivers Education Classes" for many years
and knew just what to do. No--it wasn't his fault, as the other car didn't have his car under control and slid into our back bumper as we were exiting onto another road.
Since I am on the subject of "Mr Wonderful", I have to tell you a story a few years back.
Our daughter called one morning and gave me some prayer requests about her daughter.
These are the requests--1. She would find a Christian Soulmate (God's choice), 2. That he would love her dearly, 3. That our daughter and husband would love him and he would feel the same about them (this was just an added request), but not as important as the first two requests. I promised that I would pray with her about these requests.
Our granddaughter went with some Sorority close friends to a New Year's Eve party in Chicago
shortly after this. (Her best friend lived in Chicago at the time). She met her "Mr. Wonderful"
that evening. I'm sure this was no accident, but an answer to our prayers. He truly is a good Christian man and has a clear cut value system that is rare. Yes, we all truly love him and he shows that same love in return to all of us. Beside, he loves our granddaughter and is really a great daddy to "Cutie".
One thing that helped him to develop this value system was that his dad and mom had foster children into their home all during his growing up years. I think they said that there were 51 children that came to live with them, even though some of them were for a short period of time.
That is not counting 4 of their own children.
His mother had always wanted to run an orphanage ever since she was in high school and this was as close to that as she ever got. Her father was a medical doctor and the genes of "caring for others" were present. His mother and father met in college and fell in love and truly have been a loving family and has accepted our granddaughter like their own child.
For an added bonus, he is handsome, has a sense of humor, and very intelligent. Now when God answers our humble prayers, he adds even more than we ask or think.
Wisdom for the day--Invest your life in what pays eternal dividends.
Friday, December 19, 2008
"THE BIG BLACK BAG"
Right after dinner my mother called my dad over and whispered in his ear. He quickly went to the phone and called someone and said who he was and told him "It is time".
It wasn't very many minutes later a car pulled up in our yard and a man got out with a "BIG BLACK BAG". He went into the bedroom where my mother was and just a few minutes elapsed and a cry came from the bedroom.
The man with the "BIG BLACK BAG" came out and told my sister and brother that they had a baby sister (ME). They were overjoyed and couldn't believe it! This man brought me in that
"BIG BLACK BAG". There were 2 eye witnesses to this and they were convinced he carried me in the bag.
I know you thought that "Storks" brought babies to us, but I'm here to tell you that I have two living eye witnesses and it wasn't a stork, it was the man with the "BIG BAG BAG".
I just wanted to set the record straight. That old fable about the Stork is all wrong. I know because I was there!
My mother had a hard time getting pregnant (a word that was not discussed in those days). She had one miscarriage and couldn't seem to have any more. She prayed a lot about this situation and read about a tonic (Lydia Pinkams) that people used to help them have children. They claimed there was a "baby in every bottle". What!!!!! I thought babies come from "Black Bags"
now I hear they come from "bottles"!!!! What gives? Oh well, she has always said that through prayer and Lydia Pinkams (I think this was an iron supplement), she had her 3 children. She was 35 years of age before my sister was born and I was born when she was 40 years of age. A brother was born between these two ages. She was married at 26 years of age and so she waited quite awhile before God answered her prayers.
Wisdom of the day--"Never give up in your prayers! God does answer our prayers, sometime he just wants us to Wait awhile."
Thursday, December 18, 2008
MY DISAPPOINTMENT--LEFT BEHIND!
I mentioned that I was going to write about my disappointment when I was 6 or 7 years old. My dad decided to take my sister and my brother to the Worlds Fair in Chicago. Since my mother didn't want to go and dad had only 2 hands to hang on to 2 children, I was left behind. I remember standing there crying and watching the car leave without me.
My mother had promised me, that we would get a Banana Split the next time we went to the town where there was a really fancy "Ice Cream Parlor". That seemed to console me as they left. This was our "special treat" for not getting to go to the Fair.
They left early after chores were completed and took their lunch with them. I learned about the Worlds Fair second hand. They arrived home yet that day. The year was 1933 (in the depth of depression years).
My mother indeed kept her promise to me and I remember eating a huge "Banana Split" in this fancy (and it truly was a fancy ice cream parlor even in todays standard). We had just been served our Banana Splits, when who should appear in the ice cream place, is my sister and brother. They were disappointed that they weren't included in this "splurge". One must remember that this was in the depth of depression years and truly was a splurge to get to go to the Worlds Fair and or/the "Fancy Ice Cream Parlor".
Wisdom of today--Disappointments are part of life! One thing that we can be sure of, God doesn't ever disappoint us! Down through the years I have found out that Christ truly is "Our Rock" and we can trust Him for our future!
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
HOW WE BECAME "IRRESISTABLE IN THE EARLY YEARS!
During the time that our house was lite by kerosine lamps we had a curling iron that we heated up in the globe part of the lamps. When hot, we would curl our hair with this iron. It didn't stay curled very long with this method. Then I remember wires that had leather wrapped around these wires and you twisted the hair up in this contraption, and that did a little better with our curls. Some used strips of cloth and wrapped their hair in these until dry.
There were metal curlers that we used at one point in growing up. This wasn't a very good method either (it split your hair). Then we used hair pins twisting one row one way and the next row the other way, and it created nice waves.
Sometime in the late 30's and early 40's we would go to the beauty parlor and get a permanent.
Now the machine that they hooked you up on was wired to electricity, and they clamped dozens of these strange looking things on to your wound up hair. They set the timer and lo and behold you came out with beautiful curls. I don't know what would happen if the place caught on fire, as you were really wired for a permanent stay! Luckily, this didn't happen and we were transformed into an "irresistible beauty".
So now you know how "girls" got so irresistible!
Todays wisdom--I Peter 3:3,4 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart in that which is not corruptible, even ther ornament of the meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. (God is looking at the inner beauty of a person instead of the outer beauty.)
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
CLOTHING, SHOES, ETC!
In those days, they would buy feed and these came in sacks. The sacks were printed material and many a dress came from these feed sacks. If we didn't use them for dresses, we used them for tea towels.
I have a picture of myself when I was about 4 1/2 and my cousin was about 2 1/2. She was looking down at my bloomers which was hanging below my dress. She seems to be thinking--
"I can't believe she is letting it all hang out"! Everytime I see that picture I have to laugh. I have a fairly nice dress on, but I expect that the elastic in my bloomers were a little worn out, hence the drooping bloomers.
We had shoes and boots, but nothing spectacular. In the summer months we went barefoot all summer long. I do have a picture of my brother and I barefoot at school. My sister was all decked out in shoes. My mother claimed that we took our shoes off that day. I can't remember since I was really young and it had to have been late spring or early fall. I do know that this could be, since I loved to go barefoot.
My dad and mother always kept us clean (well, as clean as a child can stay). My dad did not want us going around dirty.
In the winter months, we had to wear long underwear. Yuk!!!! Then over the long underwear we wore cotton stockings. We had to fold the bottom of the underwear over so that we could pull the stockings up and then put on garters to keep the stockings up. So you can see that we really were quite the sight! No slacks in those days were even made for girls, let alone wear them. We couldn't wait until spring to remove that long underwear and have anklets on.
In the two small towns closest to our home they had a dry goods store and we would get our shoes, etc in there. Sometimes, the eggs would be taken into town and traded for the clothing, shoes we needed. These stores sold about anything you might need, from groceries to yard goods, etc.
Todays kids wouldn't know what to do without a large selection of the latest styles, but we were no exception, because all the kids didn't have any more than we had. We didn't feel that we were poor and we survived. A lot of children wore hand-me-downs from older siblings.
Wisdom for the day--Luke 12:27,28--Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not: and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. If then God so clothe the grass, which is to day in the field, and tomorrow is cast into the oven; how much more will he clothe you, O ye of little faith?
Monday, December 15, 2008
HAZARD ON THE FARM!
While I was playing in the shelter, I raised up and the board with a nail and brick fell down on my head. This sent a flood of tears and trickles of blood down the side of my face. I was crying and my dad and his brother was working in the implement shed. He saw all the blood and took me into the house. My mother cleaned me all up and they decided to take me into the doctor in town to get a shot and sewed up. We seldom went to the doctor, but this was too chancy not to get a tetanus shot.
My mother dressed me up in my prettiest dress (I adored this dress) and off to the doctor we went. The dress was two-toned brown with a little diamond applique on the bodice. I'm sure if I saw the dress today, I would not think it "pretty", but as a child, it was beautiful!!!! I will talk about our wardrobe as we were growing up on another time.
Anyway, with a few stitches and a shot, I was good as new!!!
Wisdom of the day--God never is late with any of his promises! I Kings 8:56b states--There has not failed one word of all His good promise, which He promised through His servant Moses. God is the same yesterday, today and always!!! You can bank on his promises to us.
Sunday, December 14, 2008
COUPLE EVENTS THAT HAPPENED!
This one story was before I was in school, but it happened one day as my brother and neighbor girl was walking hand in hand to school. (They both were in the first grade) My sister and the girls older sisters and brothers were walking behind them. There were two cars coming in opposite directions. One passed them and they turned around to see if they could get back on the road, another was coming. Just as my brother and neighbor girl was getting back on the road (they were unaware of the 2nd car), the 2nd car ran over the neighbor girl. She was unconscious and they took her to the hospital. She remained unconscious for at least a month, and thought she would die. She did survive, and is still living. The older children saw this, but was unable to warn them in time before the accident.
Another bad thing that happened in the neighborhood, that was really sad, was a toddler was
out in the yard. The parents had boiling water and sat it momentarily down. The toddler fell in the water and died. They just lived about half mile from us. They were caring parents but for a split second had their guard down. One sure can't be too careful, especially when it comes to children's safety.
Today's wisdom--"In every trial or event God walks beside us, but SOMETIMES he has to carry us!!!" I'm sure the above events, God had to CARRY the parents through these trials. God is always faithful!!!
Saturday, December 13, 2008
CHANGE IS IN THE AIR!!!
My last writing I was in the 7th grade. That summer I kept telling my dad that I did not like being the only girl in school and would like to go to the school in town. This required money because the town school wasn't in my district. Money was tight in those days, but lo and behold, they scraped up enough money to send me to town school. Even though I wouldn't have my "favorite teacher" I was excited. I hadn't told them about the "pest" so they didn't know the full reason.
It ended up that I had a man teacher for the very first time. I rode the bus like those going to high school and like I would be doing for the next 5 years (8th grade and 4 more in high school).
In "town school" the boys were more refined!!! I developed a "crush" on one of them that sat directly behind me. That crush lasted all during high school. He wasn't aware of it, however.
He was a nice boy and acted appropriately.
I am sure that the money they spent sending me to a different school was money well spent. It gave me an UP on the coming high school years. There wasn't the drastic change from grade to high school, as some experienced coming from a country school into high school.
Well, there you have the memories of "good ole school days" of long ago. I will speak more about high school days later.
Wisdom for the day--One sin becomes two when it is defended.
Friday, December 12, 2008
JUST CALL ME "IRRESISTIBLE"!
There was this boy in the same grade I was in, and overnite he just totally changed. When I would go through the double doors into the hallway between the girls and boys cloakrooms, he would invariably pop out of the boys cloakroom and try to kiss me. What on earth got into that boy, he seemed just a year before a nice person. But Whamo, overnite, he got to be such a "pain". I dreaded to go through those doors and be out of the teachers view, as I knew what I was facing on the other side. WHAT IN THE WORLD GOT INTO THAT LAD!!! Maybe they were feeding him his dad's Viagra instead of vitamins by mistake. Needless to say, I stayed very close to the teacher that year. I did not want to let her out of my sight!!! No wonder I remember her as my "favorite teacher". She was my "safety net" from a boy that went from a nice person to someone that wanted to be "Gang Busters"! I hope he grew out of this kind of approach to women.
Well then again do you J U S T S U P P O SE, . . . . . . . . . or M A Y B E . . . . . . . . . .IT W A S
B E C A U S E I was the "O N L Y G I R L" in the school!!! No, no, no, no it couldn't be that----It was because I was just so-oooooo "IRRESISTIBLE"!
When I and another girl in my school was in the 3rd and 4th grade we did eat our lunches with a couple of younger boys and called them our boyfriends. They must of liked "older women". "My supposedly boyfriend", was an only child and his mother was a former school teacher and fixed him the best lunches and in unique interesting ways. He certainly was one to eat with at lunchtime alright!!!!
Wisdom of the day---Always remember, "NEVER FEAR, THIS TOO SHALL PASS".
Thursday, December 11, 2008
RECESS AND THE GAMES WE PLAYED!
On nice days, we would go out and play "Crack the Whip'. This game is where the older kids would be first in line and us younger ones would be on the tail end. They would crack the whip and the younger ones had to run faster and usually would be cracked off of the line first. The one last standing would be the winner.
We would play "Mother May I" a lot. I'm sure you have played it. You all stand in line and the leader would tell how many places you could hop, skip, jump, walk. If you didn't say "Mother May I" first, you had to go back to the start. The one that got to the finish line first, would then be the leader.
We played "Hide and Seek".
On good days, we would play ball. You took turns to pick who you want on your team. Somehow, I never was in great demand to be on someone's team. There seemed to be older children and they were much better players. The community was getting older and babies were being born less and less, so I was one of the tail-end of the children in our community.
"Fox and the Geese" were played in the snow. One person was the fox and the others were the geese and if the Fox tagged you, you would go to his den in the center. This was a great game to play on a new fallen snow as you could mark off the pattern in the snow.
"Andy I Over" was played. They divided the group up in 2 and threw the ball over the school house, and if the other team caught it, they could run around and tag anybody on the other team. Then that person would be on their team. The goal is get everyone from one side caught and they would be on the other side.
We also, did cartwheels and other stunts. When we started standing on our heads, the teacher brought us girls in and the teacher lectured us about being "lady like". Well, that squelched that talent in a hurry!!!
Another thing we would do is jump rope and this hasn't changed at all through the years.
When I was in about the 6th grade, I think this is when the school had money for some slides, and swings, etc to play on.
On rainy days, we set up the girls cloak room to be a bank. We made our paper money and we were ready for business. Too bad, we can't just make our money now, we would all be rich. I guess that is the governments job today (Printing more paper money). This play prepared me to work at the bank at a later date. (Not really)
Another thing we would do would rope off a section of the school room and play darts with paper darts made like an airplane. The person that was "it" would tag others and they were out of the game. Well, this lasted a little while, until the teacher did not think this was an appropriate game to play. Oh well, she was my favorite teacher of all, anyway. I think she was my favorite because she was our neighbor down the road and her parents were good friends with mine. One day, we were visiting her house, and she brought out a box of scrap construction paper, etc. and gave it to me. You would have thought she had given me a "Gold Mine", as I was so-oooooo excited with these bits and pieces. My creative juices were starting to flow right there on the spot. Later in life, she congratulated me on an Appointed Position that I received at my work after reading about it in the newspaper. She was a true teacher at heart and never forgot her students!!!!! Her brother was in my sister class in high school and later got his doctorate, and was a professor at the University of Illinois.
Wisdom today--It is said, "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy!" I guess, we did have a balance and had our share of fun. Sometimes probably at times, too much fun!!!
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
AN EMBARRASSING MOMENT!!
At recess time I was standing in the sun and an older 8th grader came up to me and asked if I was drying off. This was about the most humilitating thing that could have been said. Looking back on this, I don't blame the teacher nor myself for this little mishap. It was one of those things that happen in a persons growing up years. Even though it was not one of my pleasant memories of school, but it became a memorable one. I lived to tell about it.
Lesson for today--We can endure this days problems because of the next days joys.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
ONE ROOM SCHOOL HOUSE!
I will try to describe the school house and what it was like to have all eight grades in one room.
The school was a square building and when you came in the front door, the girls cloak room was to the right and the boys to the left. Double doors led into the school room. A huge round furnace sat in the corner of the room. Fire had to be built by the teacher or her father before the children arrived. Desks of all sizes were in the room. Blackboards, maps, a bench for each class to come forward to sit on when the teacher was teaching that particular class was all that was in the room besides the teachers desk and a small cubboard to house the school library. Most homes have more books today in the home than our school had for all grades. There was a stile that was made of concrete to get over the fence of the school yard. (I suppose this was made so animals couldn't get into the school yard). Girls and boys outhouses and a coal house , a well was the only things in the school yard. Much later when money was available there were playground equipment.
Most of my teachers were excellent, but the odds of trying to teach all levels everything that todays school requires, was impossible. My daughter teaches kindergarten and her class room is so pretty and so "State of the Arts" that I often comment if we only had 1,000th of the tools and "fun" things she has to work with, I would have thought I was in heaven. Both my granddaughter and daughter has overhead projectors, computers and every tool imaginable to work with.
Depending on the year you were born, you might take 8th grade work before 7th grade work.
My sister was always in the odd year and studied one grade before she took the previous year.
So the teacher had 4 grades to teach all subjects. It was divided up by First & second, 3rd & fourth, 5th & Sixth, 7th and eighth grades. These groups would come up and sit on the bench as she taught that subject. Can you imagine the first grade getting the attention that children of that age gets today, when the teacher has so many others to teach.
We would start off with the Pledge of Allegience to the flag and a prayer. Well, that sure isn't politically correct in school today! (at least the prayer part) Somethings were better left alone, and other things improved on.
More about school days at another time.
Today's wisdom--Thank a teacher today, as they have your best interest at heart!
Monday, December 8, 2008
BUILDINGS ON THE FARM WHERE I GREW UP!.
Beside the house we had the infamous out house, milk house (that stored the cold trough I spoke of earlier), tool shed/garage, large barn, corn crib, implement shed, chicken house, brooder house, Wash house, corn/coal house. We had a windmill by the milk house. I think that was it basicly. This was a typical of the farms in our area.
A few weeks ago we were going to visit my cousin and took a side trip by the farm where I grew up. All the buildings are no longer there and instead of a gravel road, it is a black top road. The home and farm of my grandparents is no longer there, as well as a number of farm homes & buildings around on that road are gone. Even the school house had been torn down. Just memories of all of this remain vivid in my head. I guess, this is why I am trying to preserve a few of these for future generations.
Today's wisdom--God's highest Gift awakens our deepest gratitude.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
DATES IN HISTORY TO REMEMBER!
I've read a number of books written on World War II and there was nothing even remotely pretty about war. Among the books I've read were D Day, Wild Blue Yonder, Citizen Soldiers, all written by Stephen E. Ambrose. Also, Battle of Iwo Jima by James Bradley (son of the flag raiser). Some of the language isn't very pretty, but pales compared to the magnitude and horror
of the battles that took place in the war and what our Service Men experienced!!! Any one of those books are worth the read, if you haven't read them. One really appreciates the freedom that these men fought for and a lot gave their lives for. Hats off to all our Service Men and Women who fight and preserve our freedom!!!!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart if you were among those people.
Later in my writings I will tell you more about this era in our history.
Do you know what happened 96 years ago December 7, 1912? Well, I didn't think you would know the answer to this one, so I will tell you. My mother and dad were married on this day in 1912. Dad had a sense of humor and when December 7th was the day World War II broke out, he said, "All great wars start on December 7." He was only joking, because they both got along really well. I don't remember them even in a heated argument of any nature.
Long after dad had passed away, my mother needed proof of her age for some legal work, and I had to go to the court house to look up this information. They were married by the Justice of the Peace. When I went to get the copy of this, the thought came to my mind, wouldn't it be funny if I found out something I never knew about them. The clerk at the courthouse looked at the copy and started to smile. I didn't look at it until I got home. There in black and white was that my dad had married 2 women on the same day!!
I gave mom the papers and told her that Dad had really gotten around that day they were married and married 2 women. Her reply was, "Well I don't know how he could have done that since we were together the entire day." I think what had happened was that the Justice of the Peace had filled the top of the paper out and had them sign it and then later after he collected a number of these, filled out the bottom part of the same sheet. He picked up another persons name and wrote it on the same sheet by mistake. They were happily married for 42 years when he died in 1954 (one month before my 2nd daughter was born).
Wisdom of the day--Thank a Service Man today for protecting our freedom. They deserve our respect!!!!
Saturday, December 6, 2008
MY HOME--WHEN WE WERE GROWING UP!
It was a 2 story farm house. There were 4 rooms down stairs and 4 rooms upstairs.It looked rather like a saltbox structure, with a lean out kitchen in the back, with a screened in backporch and a front porch. It was surrounded by a large yard.
Downstairs consisted of--
Kitchen--Old fashioned woodburning cookstove
large square table
Cubboard
work table
kitchen cabinet
Pantry------This consisted of shelves, cream seperator, Storage for Pots & pans, supplies, Etc.
Washroom--The size of a small bathroom but without plumbing. It had a pump and sink for
pumping rainwater from the cistern into the house. It was used as a closet for coats
and it stored our washing machine when not in use.
Bedroom----This was our parents bedroom. Bed and chest of drawers. Place to hang clothes,
but no closet.
Family room--This room was used on a daily basis. It consisted of a Round Oak table,
Rolltop Desk, 2 rockers, couch, woodburning stove, library table, Sideboard (to hold
dishes), radio, straight chairs, square plant stand to hold house plants. Our landlord
gave each of their tenants a piece of furniture from their estate upon their death.
We received a marble slab cherry piece of furniture. (see note below about this)
Parlor-This room was off of the family room and used very seldom. It consisted of a davenport, overstuffed chair, end tables, coffee table, bookcase and was carpeted.
Downstairs closet. Only 1 closet downstairs
Four upstairs bedrooms, only one closet upstairs. One of the bedrooms was used as a closet or/ storage room. Each bedroom had a dresser, and bed and our bedroom had a chevarobe. (place to hang dresses). Probably a chair in each. We also, had a little skirted makeup table. My sister and I would choose the West bedroom in the summer time and the East bedroom in the winter time (this room had a register in the floor over the stove). The West bedroom had prevailing winds that brought in the breezes and was cooler.
Our house had an screened in back porch with a big door at the end of the porch that you lifted up and this was the entry to the cellar. The cellar was where we stored all the food that was canned for the winter months, plus potato bin, hams, bacon, sausage in large crock jars stored down there.
As I had stated prior, the home was not fancy, probably not insulated, wingscotting in the family room, but it was "Home". Structures doesn't make a "home". Love, security, respect produces a "home". I felt I was loved, I felt secure and there were plenty of respect in the home. So I felt it was about the "best place on earth".
Note: This piece of furniture was in our farm house and then was moved into town. When we cleared out the town house to rent it out, my brother had it in his home for quite awhile. My sister-in-law abhorred this piece of furniture. I kept telling them that it was an antique and not to sell it. Finally, after they had sold some other items, I offered to buy it, for fear that they would dispose of it. So today, I have this in my living room and it is the centerpiece. It holds lots of memories and I love it. Our landlord owned lots and lots of farm land and each tenant got a nice piece of furniture from their estate home when they passed away. The one who died was a Judge in the city he lived.
Todays Wisdom--"Be it ever so "humble" there is no place like home!"
Friday, December 5, 2008
CHRISTMAS--LONG, LONG AGO!
No one had any money to spend on decorations, gifts, or what we think is essential, but we heard the real meaning of Christmas, which was Christ (God himself) came down and was born in a manger for the purpose to to die on a cross (our substitute) to save lost sinners.
My mother would make cookies, fudge with black walnuts, popcorn balls, etc. My mother did not believe that she wanted to tell us about Santa Claus, because she thought it was a lie. Lying was prohibited in any form or imagination with her. If we asked her a question, and she wouldn't answer the question, then you knew the answer, because she would never, never tell a "white lie" to appease a person. Black was black with her and white was white and the two didn't mix.
We would get oranges, apples, bananas, nuts, candy, and those infamous chocolate drops at Christmas. Remember money was scarce and times were hard in those days. These things were a real treat.
Esther and I got a doll one year I remember. One year I got a little baking set that I longed for so much. Any other gifts were so small that I can't remember. We were happy with what we got and didn't think we were cheated out of anything. Most children in those years were in the same boat, and did not expect much. Their parents were struggling to have enough daily food and shelter, not any big things at Christmas. I know this seems foreign to the average person today.
We did not have a tree. We did have colored lights at the window. One year I wanted a tree so bad that I had my dad cut a branch off of the evergreen tree and bring it in to decorate. I was so proud of that tree.
We were "happy campers" and was thankful for what we did get. No regrets of any kind on my part. I think it made me know what really is important in life, by such humble beginnings.
Today's Wisdom-- "Wise men still seek Christ!"
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
CHRISTMAS IS IN THE AIR!
We just finished the backyard leaves when the storm hit with a batch of snow. We ended up getting 81 containers (mostly bags) of leaves from our yard. Now we have snow to contend with. Hopefully, it won't be so deep. I was under the weather a tad Monday and my husband had to do this by himself.
Today I have cookies to bake. Tomorrow I plan to go to my bible study class, and we will have a Christmas party/breakfast and gift exchange. Tomorrow evening we will see a Christmas Musical performed by our daughter's church. It really has been spectacular in the past and am looking forward to hearing it this year.
More of my stories about how it was at Christmas when I was a child on another day. A tad different than today!!!
Monday, December 1, 2008
PRIVILEGES AND RESPONSIBILITIES!
We had an end of the year all High School Picnic about 10 miles away from our home. Dad allowed me to drive myself to it and permission to pick up my best friends. They lived about 7 miles away in another direction and then we drove to the picnic. In those days, it was the exception that girls in the family learned to drive. My friends were glad that I was able to drive and pick them up.
When we got to the park where the picnic was being held, there were large rocks along the park road, so people didn't park on the grass of the pretty park. I was slowly driving along and looking for a place to park that was legal, when all of a sudden some guys from the high school saw us coming and they quickly jumped on the fenders of the car. (In those days cars still had fenders) This obstructed my view and I couldn't see the large rocks. I hit one of the rocks and the guy that was on that side went up in the air and landed back down on the fender. Well, there was a nice dent on top of the fender. I felt that I couldn't go home with a dented car, because then I feared I would never be trusted with the car again.
So my girlfriends and I went to the Chevrolet Garage to see if they could fix the dent in the fender for fifty cents (all the money I had with me and no more at home). He smiled and said that he thought he could fix it. As I left the garage with my friends, I told him that if need be, he should paint it. I was asking a lot from the garage repairman, even in those days.
The end of the day, we walked to pick up the car and they did such a beautiful job, that you couldn't tell it had been dented. Perfect!! I had covered my tracks!! I tried to be responsible! No need to tell dad about what was "Perfect"!
The next day my Dad asked, "Did I have a good time at the All School Picnic?"
I said, "Yes we did".
Dad said, "I was over in that town yesterday myself".
I said, "You WERE!! Where did you park?" (Dad had a truck in those days, also, and knew he surely would have looked around to see if I was driving around with the family car).
Dad said, "In front of the Chevy Garage."
I said, "YOU DID? You didn't happen to see our car in the Garage did you?"
Dad asked, "Was I suppose to see the car in the Garage?"
Then I broke down and told him about what happened. He didn't scold me or blame me for anything, but calmly listened.
Later I thought about it and came to the conclusion that the man at the garage probably phoned my dad and told him he was instructed to fix a dent in the car and fifty cents was not going to cover the cost and what did he want done? Dad never told me this, but even then, 50 cents was pretty cheap for repairing a dent. Dad had an even disposition and knew how to handle his children. We would never try to disappoint our Dad so we tried very hard to be responsible with the trust that he doled out.
Wisdom for the day--Ephesians 6:1-4 Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; That it may be well with thee and thou mayest live long on the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admoniton of the Lord.